Raising a Killer
By Kathryn Seifert, Ph.D.
Fifteen year old Eric Hainstock, who had a history of school violence and school suspensions, shot a
Reportedly abused and neglected as a child, Scott began using a variety of drugs and alcohol at age 10. His family was reported to the department of social services for neglect, but the case was never investigated and it was closed. His father lived in a regular house, while he and his mother were homeless and lived out of doors. Eric had aggressive actions and behavior problems before he killed his principal. (CNN)
What went wrong? It is my opinion that the abuse and neglect that Scott suffered resulted in disrupted attachment patterns (DAP) which led to inappropriate social relatedness. While, Eric’s history is yet unknown, there were signs that he was in trouble and needed help. In my opinion, killing another is an indication of something seriously awry with a person’s attachment to other people. This does not happen over night. It is not fixed over night either.
Some portion of those with disrupted attachment patterns (DAP) who do not receive corrective developmental experiences at an appropriate age are at risk of committing horrible unfathomable crimes and residing in jail cells for the rest of their lives. A homeless child or a neglected child is less likely to be exposed to corrective developmental experiences. This does not excuse or downplay the horror their actions. It does not say that society does not need to be protected from them. It is making a case for preventing these horrible acts in the future by providing services to “at risk youth.”.
We can stop this cycle for at least some portion of these youth, such as Scott Dyleski, Eric Hainstock and adults like Duane Morrison who commit heinous acts. This week, Duane Morrison molested his female hostages at